Humility and Gentleness

“Always be humble and gentle. Be patient with each other, making allowance for each other's faults because of your love”. Ephesians 4:2 (N.I.V0

The world recognizes power, strength and an assertive attitude. Humility, gentleness and making allowance for other people’s faults are not appreciated qualities since many believe they will not allow for material success. Many see them as a sign of weakness. However real humility and gentleness is not feeling inferior to others; it comes out of the strength of submission and willingness to serve others, preserving their dignity and treating all as valued members of society. It can be compared to a soothing stream which provides clear water for all to drink as compared to pride and self-will which can be likened to a muddy raging flood which destroys. In Numbers 12:3 we are told that, “Now Moses was a very humble man, more humble than anyone else on the face of the earth.”  This means that humility does not mean ineffective leadership or being down trodden. Jesus showed perfect humility by becoming man and associating with the poor, lowly and marginalized. He taught us that those who wish to be considered great must be humble," "If anyone wants to be first, he must be the very last, and the servant of all."Mark 9:35.

In line with Paul’s preaching, building others up, encouraging them and loving them in spite of any perceived failings or irritating behavior is paramount for a Christian. We need to learn to cope with others who are not like us so that there can be peace and unity. This however does not mean that we should conform to other people’s values. We should endeavor to lead them to follow the Christian doctrine. Cultivating humility, gentleness, and patience with others is however not a simple task. We develop them as mature as Christians; as we learn to depend on God for our strength. And when they are manifested in us, others can find our faith convincing.

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“Pride goes before destruction, a haughty spirit before a fall. Better to be lowly in spirit along with the oppressed than to share plunder with the proud”

Proverbs 16:18-19

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